tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post6035400097950321361..comments2024-02-14T11:47:45.104+05:30Comments on Kuch Khatta Kuch Meetha: I wish I could forgive youAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-51038148275257856422013-11-24T08:26:55.942+05:302013-11-24T08:26:55.942+05:30Thank you Vishal You are right I took the decision...Thank you Vishal You are right I took the decision in the interest of the school. Kindly read my post 'Gratitude'.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-16858446533838699322013-11-24T08:23:14.588+05:302013-11-24T08:23:14.588+05:30Thank you Jaishree . I can understand your approac...Thank you Jaishree . I can understand your approach to my action. But in the circumstance, this was the only solution. I have also said that she was an excellent teacher, but her unholy action for which she did not even apologise to her colleague, she deserved to be punished.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-89942359310776437042013-11-24T08:14:37.290+05:302013-11-24T08:14:37.290+05:30Generally I did not take any serious action but la...Generally I did not take any serious action but lady was incorrigible.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-40823158937128673332013-11-24T01:08:06.982+05:302013-11-24T01:08:06.982+05:30I feel you took the decision in the best interest ...I feel you took the decision in the best interest of the school. Sometimes, the onus lies on us and much to our chagrin, we need to act. I cannot forgive or forget people.<br />www.vishalbheeroo.wordpress.comVishal Bheeroohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01085897828634157572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-60559401332725593062013-11-24T00:19:56.140+05:302013-11-24T00:19:56.140+05:30But for such people is transfer a correct step ? T...But for such people is transfer a correct step ? The children in rural areas in fact need someone to teach them moral values rt ? So is it fair transferring such folks in need of ethical and moral values to such places ? Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-75232390234030803292013-11-23T17:49:41.243+05:302013-11-23T17:49:41.243+05:30Honestly,I find it very difficult to forget and fo...Honestly,I find it very difficult to forget and forgive..BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-61261944129490899822013-11-23T14:25:41.863+05:302013-11-23T14:25:41.863+05:30Yes Asha it was really a difficult situation. At t...Yes Asha it was really a difficult situation. At that time, as a boss, I had to act in stringent manner. Her fault was such that, as an administrator I had to take stringent action. Now when I look back I don't regret that I took a very strong step. I feel for her. If she had apologised, I would perhaps not taken such a strict action.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-57121135915453740112013-11-23T14:08:44.981+05:302013-11-23T14:08:44.981+05:30Shilpa in such a situation it was hard to forgive....Shilpa in such a situation it was hard to forgive. At that time as a boss, if I had forgiven her, it would have led to indiscipline in the school. But that lady was so stubborn and headstrong that she did not feel sorry for her action, either to me or to the person whom she humiliated.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-17671340489688762602013-11-23T13:58:08.704+05:302013-11-23T13:58:08.704+05:30Yes Padmaja it is true but unfortunate that such ...Yes Padmaja it is true but unfortunate that such incidents take place. In a frenzy of emotions a person can stoop to such a level that he/she don't realise how much they are hurting another person. At that point I was not in a mood to forgive her.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-78614539607084826312013-11-23T11:36:54.713+05:302013-11-23T11:36:54.713+05:30That must have been a very difficult situation for...That must have been a very difficult situation for you to handle then, ma'am. You still remember the incident vividly, shows how hurt you must have been. It definitely is tough to forgive such people especially for sensitive people, but then we must move on. Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01853943313848326731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-84162032881590112702013-11-22T14:00:28.300+05:302013-11-22T14:00:28.300+05:30Agree, sometimes it is tough to forgive. Letting g...Agree, sometimes it is tough to forgive. Letting go of the hurt is difficult. But then one has to do it for our own inner peace. Shilpa Garghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11016927627801620377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-80549146126265086612013-11-22T11:34:20.659+05:302013-11-22T11:34:20.659+05:30Shocked to see that such people that hurt others ...Shocked to see that such people that hurt others stooping to mean levels exist in this world. Hurt is temporary and small when you look at the bigger picture of life. By dwelling in the hurt, what do we gain? We cant unwind that has already happened, so it is best to leave the hurt back. I have done it, it is not hard! Forgiveness is the best virtue a human can develop.padmajahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297562916603110230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-998471058462520402013-11-22T11:15:18.631+05:302013-11-22T11:15:18.631+05:30 Reshma I know forgiving and forgetting is very d... Reshma I know forgiving and forgetting is very difficult at a young age. At this age I have become more tolerant and sober.This incident took place 50 years ago , when I too had the same opinion as yours.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-9288929206082698662013-11-22T10:25:00.649+05:302013-11-22T10:25:00.649+05:30Thank you SM. Thanks for the visit.Thank you SM. Thanks for the visit.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-5332933903916143442013-11-22T10:23:35.663+05:302013-11-22T10:23:35.663+05:30Yes Anil there is no guarantee that the person w...Yes Anil there is no guarantee that the person will not repeat the same offense. But this incidence is more than 50 years old.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-72715125876026371352013-11-22T10:07:19.530+05:302013-11-22T10:07:19.530+05:30Yes Rama life is complicated. The scar remains! T...Yes Rama life is complicated. The scar remains! Thanks for visiting.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-50197388377391413092013-11-22T07:42:19.208+05:302013-11-22T07:42:19.208+05:30Forgiving and forgetting both are easier said than...Forgiving and forgetting both are easier said than done Ushaji. Maybe the hotheadedness of my age but I do move on with life but I'm not the forgive and forget kind of saint. I keep to myself but if someone hurts me repeatedly then they'll get what they are asking for and without any apologies... Reshmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01640435257765195374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-55603430029977127442013-11-22T00:18:21.759+05:302013-11-22T00:18:21.759+05:30beautifully written beautifully written SMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08421656022621802223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-65193256527864179922013-11-21T22:16:10.682+05:302013-11-21T22:16:10.682+05:30I feel quite annoyed when this argument of forgivi...I feel quite annoyed when this argument of forgiving is dangled. It is not the question of forgiving or even forgetting. But often what is the guarantee that you will not be treated a sucker and the trampling goes on?anilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5042893054722503603.post-13019758459775916882013-11-21T19:49:43.989+05:302013-11-21T19:49:43.989+05:30Sometimes it is not the issue of forgiving the per...Sometimes it is not the issue of forgiving the person who has hurt us, rather it is more difficult to forget the hurt they have caused. But, I suppose if we are unable to forget, it automatically means we have not been able to forgive .<br />Life can be quite complicated at times.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.com