Welcome old age or is it golden age!! The beauty of childhood and the glory of youth has given way to quietitude and tranquillity of old age.Looking backward I see not only a life of fulfilment and success but also that of trials and tribulations. The arrival of old age has unfolded new hopes and aspirations of a kind never experienced before.Our life is now more regulated.We find pleasure in things which we never even noticed before. We have all the time in the world to give fruition to our hobbies and desires lying beneath our subconscious mind.
I spoke to some oldies to know their views about ageing.Majority of the people feel that they are now relaxed and at peace with themselves. I remember Somerset Maugham's words,
'Old age has its pleasures,which though different,are not less than the pleasures of youth'.It has been observed that as we grow older, we become more tolerant;we acquire the ability to control our emotions much more notably than when we were young.The transition from youth to old age is much more smooth than we anticipated.A very unique feeling of spiritual glory overtakes an individual.The vision of the God Almighty which brings harmony and a sense of surrender is visible. This is not to say that in a youth there are no such emotions but with the passing of years this affinity with the Supreme comes to the fore.
There is no doubt that physical infirmities slowly make their way and take charge of the human body.One has to be fortunate to be spared of the onslaught of these irritants. Fading vision , hearing capacity diminishing, and weakening of joints are common ailments of old age.In olden days such problems might have prevented people from performing their daily activities but now prompt and effective medication is available at affordable price and do not in any way become a hurdle in performing daily chores. Now is the time to observe and enjoy the wonders of nature, little birds twittering ,squirrels running at jet speed and hordes of monkeys descending from no where and disturbing the flora and fauna of the neighbourhood!! In our younger times where was the time to even notice such captivating and bewitching sights.A saying by a famous poet' Sans eyes, sans teeth, sans every thing', no longer holds true in the modern age.
Most important factor at this age is family bonding which tend to get strengthened in old age. In our youth we were so much engrossed in our profession that we could hardly pamper and cuddle our children. We were more concerned about teaching them good manners and disciplining them. Now when we are old we are more indulgent towards our grand children. Every move and every action of our grand children thrills us .The roles are now reversed. In fact they decide and dictate and we don't have the heart to disappoint them!! To maintain harmony and peace we allow our children to have their own space and privacy. They are where we were once! They must have the liberty to manage their affairs.
It is unfortunate that in some households harmonious relations are not maintained. On one side the aged parents feel neglected and on the other side the children treat their own parents as a burden. Generally lack of understanding and adjustment lead to such a situation. In fact both sides need counselling.
I must end with a happy note that old age is melodious and not malicious.
I spoke to some oldies to know their views about ageing.Majority of the people feel that they are now relaxed and at peace with themselves. I remember Somerset Maugham's words,
'Old age has its pleasures,which though different,are not less than the pleasures of youth'.It has been observed that as we grow older, we become more tolerant;we acquire the ability to control our emotions much more notably than when we were young.The transition from youth to old age is much more smooth than we anticipated.A very unique feeling of spiritual glory overtakes an individual.The vision of the God Almighty which brings harmony and a sense of surrender is visible. This is not to say that in a youth there are no such emotions but with the passing of years this affinity with the Supreme comes to the fore.
There is no doubt that physical infirmities slowly make their way and take charge of the human body.One has to be fortunate to be spared of the onslaught of these irritants. Fading vision , hearing capacity diminishing, and weakening of joints are common ailments of old age.In olden days such problems might have prevented people from performing their daily activities but now prompt and effective medication is available at affordable price and do not in any way become a hurdle in performing daily chores. Now is the time to observe and enjoy the wonders of nature, little birds twittering ,squirrels running at jet speed and hordes of monkeys descending from no where and disturbing the flora and fauna of the neighbourhood!! In our younger times where was the time to even notice such captivating and bewitching sights.A saying by a famous poet' Sans eyes, sans teeth, sans every thing', no longer holds true in the modern age.
Most important factor at this age is family bonding which tend to get strengthened in old age. In our youth we were so much engrossed in our profession that we could hardly pamper and cuddle our children. We were more concerned about teaching them good manners and disciplining them. Now when we are old we are more indulgent towards our grand children. Every move and every action of our grand children thrills us .The roles are now reversed. In fact they decide and dictate and we don't have the heart to disappoint them!! To maintain harmony and peace we allow our children to have their own space and privacy. They are where we were once! They must have the liberty to manage their affairs.
It is unfortunate that in some households harmonious relations are not maintained. On one side the aged parents feel neglected and on the other side the children treat their own parents as a burden. Generally lack of understanding and adjustment lead to such a situation. In fact both sides need counselling.
I must end with a happy note that old age is melodious and not malicious.
well said aunty.. have a blast.. :) always..
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