Some days ago I saw my husband behind a mountain of papers.Papers, big and small, some fresh
and others fading and whithering away by
the passage of time cluttered his table. This scene was actually being enacted for the last several days.
I just saw him everyday
taking out a new bundle and frantically
discarding papers one by
one and throwing back back into the same bundle. Whenever I asked him what was he looking for so intently, he did not even respond. Why was he so desperate? Finally I could not bear it
any longer. I pulled away the bundle and repeated the same query. He then told me that he was searching for a paper which he had received from the bank and it
had to be submitted for Income Tax
purposes. The main reason was that the papers had accumulated over a period of
time. This clutter had not got
his attention.
It is a basic human nature to possess and not to throw away any thing.A housewife never likes to discard any thing. Specially every kitchen has the privilege to store within its four walls all sorts of knick knacks. Generally the clutter is more obvious in the papers,which include bills, receipts, instruction manuals, guarantee cards, old newspapers and magazines and what not. The kitchen clutter includes numberless bottles, tins and containers which have no use in the family but continue to exist due to either the family’s emotional attachment or indifference towards them. If we ponder how much we have accumulated we will be shocked at our own stupidity. The drawers are all full of unwanted things which jump out every time we open them. Clothes spread everywhere are a great eye sore. No space is spared. The doors ,windows and chairs silently bear the burden of the clothes. All this overcrowding is one of the reasons for stress . A famous writer has said, ’There will be calmness and tranquillity when external things are removed.”
Our endeavour should be not to allow things to go on adding, even if their date has not expired. There are many items to which we are emotionally attached.It will only be gathering dust lying unused. One must keep in mind that if an article has not been used in the last one year ,it deserves to be discarded. We keep on adding to our wardrobe.The ‘in’ window is kept open but the ‘out’ window hardly opens.
One must realise that one way traffic will only result in jams.It must be a two way process.You will feel more relaxed if you firmly discard items which are no longer relevant.
Then peace of mind will ensue.
Use it up
Wear it out;
Make it do --
Or do without ( Alfred Einstein)
The best way to keep the house neat and clean is to out wit your possessiveness and be more organised. We must
ensure that house cleaning is not illusory ie. hide away things from your sight and dump them
in some corner of the house.
In the words of Mother Teresa
In the words of Mother Teresa
The more you have, the more you are occupied.
The less you have, the more free you are."
The less you have, the more free you are."
Our motto should be-
'DOWN WITH CLUTTER
'DOWN WITH CLUTTER
DOWN WITH CLUTTER and again
DOWN WITH CLUTTER!!!
DOWN WITH CLUTTER!!!
Aha,with most of activities going online,less and less of clutter would be seen around the house.
ReplyDeleteVery well said!! Whatever is not used for a year will rarely be used again! How much we can accumulate over a short span of time is amazing... the home delivery plastic food containers, the bottles and jars, clothes, shoes... I prefer to give all such stuff to my household help or give clothes, toys etc in SOS Village or Mother Teresa Home!
ReplyDeleteShilpa, Thanks a lot for your encouraging comments.
ReplyDeletehahaha...one way traffic. I liked it. I accumulate stuff too, but very organised for that matter. I keep certain petty things for a long time wanting to keep them forever and one fine day, I just trash it. I donno how I manage to do it :)Especially after coming to the US, I learnt to throw/give away stuff b cos there is very less space and if you don't use it, give it to someone else. :)
ReplyDeleteYou are right.We love to accumulate things.We dont want to part with anything but space constraints compel us to discard them.
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