Every one has a personality of his/ her own. There are many people who don't (or shall we say cannot) take a decision on their own. Even in small matters like which dress they should they put on, they will ask people at home, friends or even colleagues. We must be independent in deciding things for our selves.
In daily life we encounter so many people, and so many issues. If we always try to hide behind another person to discuss and decide matters for us, we will never progress. If you are alone , you cannot wait for some one to come and decide on our part. Be independent.
In life, you will realise that there are people who don't like you. There may be no reason, but you two cannot move together. The other person may retort you in the presence of others.It will be a wise decision to discard such people from your thoughts.
You come to know that a person you are trying to befriend or who is very 'chummy, chummy with you in the presence of others, speaks volumes against you.He is trying to befriend you with some ulterior selfish purpose. It is better not to ask for his explanation, because he will always deny, that he has uttered any offensive remarks against you. Just leave his company and forget about this chapter in your life.
If someone is angry with you, ask him to be frank and tell you the reason for his annoyance. If the person is annoyed for a genuine reason, you must tender your apology to him.If the person is annoyed on some imaginary incident, try to clarify the situation. If he still does not make up with you, it is better to leave such a person alone. You should have nothing to do with him.
It is always a good idea to listen to your inner voice, so that you stand on your own, and earn the respect of others.
Written for Write Tribe Pro Blogger Week 6 Day60