Oh! How much everyone loves
to get a gift. Whether it is a birthday, some festival,
or marriage anniversary, people
expectantly wait for a gift. Gift is a sort of communication between the giver and the receiver. Right from
childhood we start getting gifts
and in
return give gifts to our friends, relatives and well wishers. People
wait for gifts. I remember that when my son was only four years old, we invited
his whole class on his Birthday.He was in the nursery class. All the kids
were playing. like a
'thunderbolt' to them. There was panic. All the children heard this
that poor child .All of them 'Gheraoed' him and
ordered him to get out. Seeing the
commotion I interrupted and took my son aside and told him that his behaviour was wrong. I have narrated
this incident only to emphasise how
important is a gift for everybody,irrespective of age or gender.
When we receive a gift we do not realise
how much preparation has gone into planning and purchasing
it. Recently I was invited to my sister’s birthday party. This invitation set me thinking. What
to buy for her. There were ten days to
think and acquire a gift for her. I discussed with my friends what
to buy. There were multitudes of
suggestions, which confused me .
I called my sister and asked her preference for a gift. She too said that I should use my own discretion. This
added fuel to fire. I discussed with her husband and requested him to suggest what would be
the best gift for my sister. He said that he himself was in a dilemma and could not
make up his mind. Disappointed
from this quarter too, I started hunting the shops. The first shop that I entered had hundreds of gift items.Every thing that the
shopkeeper displayed attracted me. In
the end I came out empty handed. This became a daily routine. Some days I went window shopping and some other days I sort of ransacked the
shops. I was getting upset. After all, I
had to give her a gift. Only three days were left for the party, and as far as I was concerned status quo prevailed.Now even at night I could not
sleep. What to buy, what to buy, was the constant refrain in my mind. Ultimately the last day arrived.
In the evening I had to go for the party and here I had no idea what gift I was
going to buy and give to my sister. In my heart of hearts I decided that I would give her cash and tell her to buy anything of her
choice. After I made this decision I was
relaxed and went to office wondering why
I had not decided earlier to give her cash. She would surely have bought something of her liking. In the evening after
I left my office and was about to start
the car, the care taker came
running and waved me to stop. I was puzzled.What has
happened. I looked at him questioningly . Ma'am you forgot to take your Lap
top. I told him it was not mine. As I
started the car something just struck.
Wow, why I did not get this idea
earlier? Why have I been confused all these days? I must purchase a Lap Top for my sis. How happy she will be. I already felt her joy .I could
vividly sense her satisfaction and her
face beaming with joy. I went straight to a shop and bought a Lap Top for her. I got it gift wrapped. When I
reached my sister's house I felt on top
of the world. In my mind I was showering
so many Badhais on myself. I reached the
spot where she was standing, surrounded
by friends. I gave her the parcel. She immediately said, ”My best gift is here.”All
her friends implored her to open the gift.
Enthusiastically she started removing the gift paper. The moment
, her gift was visible, she exclaimed “ Oh no." Her husband, who was also there, took the parcel from her. His facial
expression changed and he swooned!!
Every one was dumb stricken. No body
could even guess what had happened. My
sister went inside and brought a parcel which her husband had gifted to her. She gave it in my hands. Oh my
god! It was a Lap Top exactly as I had
bought, same company, same model and same features. It was now my turn to
swoon!! This was one gift purchasing which had made me crazy.
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hahaha...funny but sad. I know buying a gift requires lot of thinking and time..in the U.S, they have gift cards which makes it easy most of the times..I think in India too, the concept has come.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comments.You are correct.In India also the concept cards is becoming popular.
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