Drug addiction is a term with which every youth is
familiar. Drug addiction has already assumed a dreadful and notorious reputation,
but the allure of this addiction is so much ingrained in the mind set of the
younger generation that they fail to understand or realize the harm which these
drugs are causing to their body. This addiction is no less than a termite which
eats away the wood to an extent that it becomes a powder, with not a slightest
sign of its not being strong and healthy till the wood is completely destroyed.
The
question arises that how children acquire this devastating and pernicious habit.
There are many parents who drink and make merry in front of their children. It
is now become a part of daily life that not only the fathers, but the mothers also
are equal partners in sharing drinks and smoking in front of the children, in
their formative years. I once personally saw both parents drunk in a party,
which they were hosting. The maid, carrying hardly a one year old child crying
loudly, entered the room. The mother took the baby and the maid went away. The
mother poured about 1/4th glass of some alcohol and made the child
drink it. The child stopped crying and everyone, including the guests,
congratulated the mother! One can infer
that this child, when grown up, will be addicted to drugs, alcohol and other
such malicious and malevolent things. Thus it is the home, where the child gets
his first lesson in ‘enjoying’ addictives.
Agreed that such incidents may be rare, but one cannot completely ignore
or rule them out.
It is mainly the home which impacts the child.
Now a day’s drinking and smoking is not only a part of any party but has become
a routine in many households. The children, especially the adolescents, who
already dream of becoming handsome and popular among friends, fall an easy prey
to such activities easily.
The
children these days even become prone to such temptations at school level. Peer
pressure is so strong that the child fears that he will be singled out, so he
falls into the trap. Here too the role of the parents is important. They must
keep their eyes and ears open. Any change in the child’s behavior must not be
ignored. We have to see that the child is in the company of friends who are
studious and coming from god fearing families. If at any time the parent is
informed that the child is missing classes or his performance in the class is
deteriorating, the parent must take a serious note of this. Some parents very,
confidently state, ’my child cannot do this’ or ‘in our family no one has any addiction.’
Just remember that drugs are easily available to the children. I have noticed
that just outside the gate of many schools there is an innocuous looking shop,
selling tea and snacks, but where harmful drugs are easily available. While
working in the Education Department, I got some such shops removed with the
help of Police Officers.
Teach
the children to be God fearing. Do not allow the kids to spend a night in a
friend’s house, unless you ensure that no one in that family can have an
adverse effect on the child’s mind. When some scenes are shown on TV or in
Movies, take advantage of the situation and explain the
harmful effects of addiction to the children.
There are many sensible parents who abstain from
drinks and other such harmful addictives to convey an unambiguous message to
the children to stay away from it. Such positive actions on the part of the
parents equip the children to make sensible decisions in life when they grow
up. If your child confesses that he/she was forced to take a drug by a friend, don’t just put it off by saying
that, ‘don’t do it again’, but have a heart to heart talk with your child so
that in future he/she has the strength to say a firm ‘no’ to it.
I end this article on a positive note that let
tomorrow bring a new sunshine in your mind, and take you on the path of health,
happiness and harmony. Remember the
words of a famous author, Kurt Cuba,“Drugs
are a waste of time. They destroy your memory and your self-respect and everything
that goes along with your self esteem.”
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