There should be some aim in life. If we live without knowing what we want from life,we will never rise. Without any ambition or a target the path will never be straight. We will be lost ,n an unending labyrinths and will never achieve any thing . It will only be a life wasted.
We live in a society, in the midst of people of all sorts, with different living conditions, different views and different circumstances. Life is all about give and take, whether it is our home, friends or work place. God has not given us any option to select our family. In whatever circumstances we are born we must respect our elders, and be affectionate towards our youngsters. The bond of the family is unique and cannot be broken. So is the case with friends. We choose our friends, and we must be loyal to them. It is very difficult to get good friends. We must cherish this relationship.
Once we have developed friendship with someone, we must make genuine efforts to trust the friends. In this world there are several types of people. Most of them are fair weather friends. True and sincere friends are very difficult to get. You must listen to your inner instinct before letting this relationship grow to an extent that you may not have to regret later on. I remember that when I was studying in M.A., we had a huge bunglow in Dehra Dun. There was a girl , who had come from Delhi and was staying in the premises of a temple in a small room with no facilities. Initially I tried to develop friendship with her, but the response from her side was not encouraging, so I treated her just like any other class mate. When she knew about our house, she started coming to our house very often. She won over the mind of my mother. One day she came up with her motive for becoming very friendly. She told mom that if we allow her to stay in our house, she would be obliged. She even contacted a friend of my mother in Delhi, who called my mom to allow her to stay with us. She always flattered me. In the college she used to spread all sorts of stories against my family. I was very much disturbed.I told my mom to tell that girl to leave, but my mother was too soft. I bluntly told her to find another accommodation.It is better to be frank instead of repenting later on.
Listen to your inner voice. It will guide you to the right direction. Live life to the fullest. Always be happy and spread cheer all around.
Written for Write Tribe Pro Bloggers Week Day 62